Better late than never..

Hi Guys!! I suppose the time is too short to be spent on unnecessary and unproductive things. Since the quarantine period is a certain blessing in disguise in case you are investing your time in the right things and the right people. Okay, so advices apart, let's dive into some of the life-changing things I learned which elevated me to a certain mental and spiritual level. (There's gonna be some Dadaji advices also, so please bear with it because these things can take you really far off in your life).

Here is the list of certain things that taught me to be a better version of myself in terms of every aspect I can think of, that happened between the dusk of my teenage till the dawn of my adulthood.

These include:

• Always having a humble attitude towards your well-wishers treating them with a smile.

• Never getting into unnecessary arguments which ought to lead to superfluous results.

• Never falling prey to an ill or bad friend circle.

• Never getting too over possessive for your loved ones.

• Never disrespecting any girl in society.

• Never giving due over-importance to anybody.

• Never deprioritizing your passions/hobbies.

• Never getting lost or confused about your goals in life.

• Never going out of the box to help anyone who is not really worth and deserving.

• Never getting too attached (except your family) and available for anybody, who has not really asked for it. Sooner or later your importance will be devalued.

• Always focusing on goals and aims you have thought of in your life. That will give you much better happiness once you reach over there.

• Always respect, love and care for your parents. They should be above all priorities we have in our life. Just having a small conversation regularly with them whenever we are away will make them happy, believe me on that.

• Never disrespect or say ill to your parents for any reason in the world because no matter what they will always be there for you in your darkest of days.

• Momentary infatuations and attractions at these ages are natural, but running behind these things, leaving all our important priorities behind is really bizarre. Try to learn from other’s experiences/mistakes to avoid these things

• Being a better listener than an orator always works out in life.

• Never getting too addicted to social media. Make it your asset rather than your liability.

• Gaining a sense of maturity whenever we progress through different stages of life.

• Never develop an addiction to alcohol/weed/smoking. Try to Lead a healthy lifestyle.

• Having a fit and vibrant life always keeps you happy (doing yoga, going out for a run or to a gym).

• Always doing what you love than loving what you do really works out in life. You will be having a greater sense of satisfaction.

• Never stop dreaming and getting ambitious in life.

• Never devaluing academics at this age. This should be at the topmost priority before anything.

• Never stop having fun but in a proper way taking care of everything.

• Never stop exploring the world. This only limits your perspective on everything.

• Never falling for materialistic things at this age. This will become really petty when you grow up.

• Never stop learning from people having greater experience than you. They make us enrich a lot in different fields of life.

• Getting out of the rat race of life and trying to do something which provides a sense of peace and solace.

• Never getting jealous of somebody's success who is dear to you. These feelings keep creeping up in our mind but don’t let it overpower you to ruin relationships.

• Sharing your problems and feelings with someone who is close and dear to you always reduces your burdens in life (like families).

• Trying to Get up early in the mornings is always a good habit!! (Though less followed :P).

• Never let the burden of expectations ruin your life, rather make them (specifically your career and education) your targets and do the hell everything to achieve it despite failing a few times.

• Sometimes expectation hurts!! So, leave those expectations behind which are expected to ruin you eyeing your chase after it (Like expectations related to your one-sided relationships).

• Never backing out from your fears and flaws no matter what. Try hard to overcome it because we know “Darr ke aage jeet hai”.

• Never getting stressed/demotivated due to any kind of minuses in your life, Rather take inspirations from these minuses to convert it into your plus because Life is the name of moving on beyond your ups and downs.

• Always trying to increase the knowledge you have through different sources of reading and writing (as I am trying to do here on my blog!! ).

• Never forget supporting and sharing our blogs. It's free and motivates bloggers like us to become better at sharing our thoughts and experiences.

Always be yourself no matter what, because everyone is unique and special in this beautiful world

P.S. This is something which I learned from my own mistakes and the experiences gained from my surroundings.

Cheers to all, who have taken their time out for reading my blogs

Keep Supporting. Keep reading. Keep progressing in life.

This is AMIT SAHOO, signing off !!