Do IITians Really Remain Single ?
I consider myself pretty eligible for writing a short article on this, because I too fell into the same category long back when I was in my college life and maybe a certain amount of college life and IIT tag did enhance my nerdy tag even more outside the campus repelling the girls actually instead of attracting them because of the so-called "IIT tag" Sounds ironical and interesting, and if you think we have some chance on the campus then you are quarter correct in your thoughts, some of us do have chances with the campus girls but most of us yet remain single during those college times. Hard to believe? Then do give the below article a 5 minute time. U will understand a brief scenario...
The most stereotype question everyone always asks when an IITian steps out of his college goes like “Buddy, Why are you single till now”? And the word “his” is always appropriate here because we don’t see girls in IIT roaming single in the campus in most of the cases. And the stereotype is assumed to be pretty correct.
There are several reasons why we IITians are declared to be a novice in cases of relationships and girls :
- The person who steps into his high school or intermediate studies further is constantly persuaded by his family to study for JEE without diverting his attention into something else. So, if he is a keen determined person for his preparation he never eyes on any of the girls if at all he happens to read in some school having a good gender diversity.
- Other catalysts like a good coaching institute help him remaining focused and motivated for his preparation but never ever he learns the skill of talking to girls and trying to approach her in case if there are any in his coaching institute (Most of them have a bad gender ratio).
- If at all you land up in Kota (JEE Preparation Hub) for your 2-year preparation (which most of the people actually do) and you end up dating some girl in Kota (you will find many actually do), then you wouldn’t see him in IIT until and unless he is a gifted prodigy who could manage both the things in one go.
- His hard work, dedication, and passion towards JEE lands him into one of the good IITs but alas !! what does he get, every kind of fun and facility except a good gender diversity. In my case, it was 1:10 in IIT Kgp i.e. 150 girls out of a total of 1500 people enrolled every year in this college.
- In the first year, some end up studying really hard for their CGPA (1st category) and others end up joining many societies (2nd category), and some fall in neither of the categories. They prefer to enjoy their life to the fullest.
- The Nerds remain isolated (not all) on the campus too. The society people manage to date some girl in the campus (only a few) and the 3rd category people still prefer to not give a sh*t to any of those.
- Generalizing the scene, If by any chance one even tries to score in the campus, there would be 9 other people along with seniors also already being in the queue for that one girl. So, just think for a while how tough it gets for a person to date that one girl in the campus. It becomes like you are applying for some company for which many of other qualified candidates have already applied their CV.
- Many results into one-sided infatuations and heartbreaks !! and some turn out to be great couples (only a few in the campus).
- Lastly, carrying those heartbreaks the person roams around in the campus during their cultural fests with a bunch of great hope and friends who constantly persuade him to approach a girl and talk to him and that poor guy with his poor skills of talking to a girl ends up very badly. This concludes the generic situation of every single guy here (again excluding the people I mentioned about in point 8).
- And ultimately most of the IITians get a lucrative offer from the campus itself and this concludes their single lonely life in the campus. Further, they try to pen down their experience on Quora about “Why most of the IITians remain single” sitting on the revolving chair of their cubicle in the office sipping a cup of coffee.
I hope it briefs something about the topic “why Most IITians remain single” :P
P.S. Another way round, It's also not that all the non-IITians have expertise in getting into relationships. There are many who are like us too. It's just that the quantity of them remaining single is less than ours (probably only because of a good gender ratio in their respective colleges).
This is my Point Of View. Everyone has some different perspective
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